6 Healthy Hair Tips for Older Women

healthy hair tips for older womenAs we age our hair loses its colour, its shine, its quality and very often it also becomes noticeably thinner. There are lots of things we can do to improve the quality of our hair and here trained nurse, hair loss writer and founder of BOOSTnBLEND Bambi Staveley, offers 6 healthy hair tips for older women.

1. Look after your scalp

It makes sense that since your hair grows out of your scalp, having a healthy scalp is important for healthy hair, just like good soil for healthy plants. It can be difficult to detect an issue with your scalp health unless you’re experiencing discomfort, so ask your hairdresser about the condition of your scalp (they don’t mind!). Some clues to an unhealthy scalp include itching, dryness, dandruff (or flaky dry skin, read here how to tell the difference), dry or brittle hair, uncontrollable frizz, thinning, hair loss, visible scalp through your hair (does your scalp get easily sun burnt?)

Scalp Saving Tips

  • Know the difference between dry scalp and dandruff and treat accordingly.
  • Give yourself scalp massages to encourage blood flow and exfoliation (especially after adding in your conditioner)
  • Don’t wear your hair in tight hairstyles too often.
  • Keep any visible scalp (including your part line) safe from the sun by applying sunscreen on a cotton bud, wearing a hat, or using chemical free scalp concealers like BOOSTnBLEND.
  • Get regular blood tests so you can be informed should you be deficit in vital vitamins and minerals that can affect hair growth and scalp health

2. Protect your hair from heat

Heat and hair are not friends. Heat can dry your hair making it brittle and susceptible to breakage. When the weather is cooler, it’s tempting to have boiling hot showers and keep the hair dryer on a little more than strictly necessary, but try to resist. If you must engage in these winter habits, take extra care to nourish and moisturize your hair and scalp. Heat can also play havoc with your scalp. You should not wash your face under boiling water in the shower to preserve your skin’s health and keep it from ageing. So don’t do it to your scalp.

Hair & Heat Tips

  • Make sure your showers are not too hot.
  • Use a heat protective spray when using blow dryers, straightens, curling wands etc.
  • Ensure you keep the hair dryer at least 20cm away from your head.
  • Wear a hat in the sun, especially if you have fine or curly hair as these hair types are more susceptible to sun damage.
  • Use a diffuser on your hair dryer so that you don’t aim too much concentrated heat on one area.

3. Condition, condition, condition!

Dry hair is definitely something to avoid at all costs, so make sure you condition adequately. When we were teens, we were taught not to condition our hair near the roots, just the ends. When we were younger, we had more natural oils in our scalp and so our hair was much more oily. As we age we produce less oils and as a result our hair becomes drier, brittle and prone to hair loss.  It is absolutely vital that we now add oil to our hair and scalp, especially if it is noticeably dry or falling out. We recommend the Carelli Oil, and massage your conditioner into your scalp, not just the ends.

Conditioning Tips

  • Use a treatment around once a week.
  • Get a treatment at the hairdresser whenever you get something drying done e.g. dyes, perms etc.
  • Towel dry your hair between shampoo and conditioner to aid in the absorption of your conditioner (you don’t put face cream on a wet face for the same reason)
  • Don’t be afraid to massage your conditioner into your scalp

4. Minimize the use of chemicals

Over the years we’ve been conditioned to thinking that good quality supermarket shampoos and conditioners can actually be good for our hair. Unfortunately, if you’ve continued with that thinking past your fifties then it’s time to make a change. Check the chemical list of all hair treatments you use. Make sure that you are minimizing the chemicals you use on your scalp and hair.

Chemical Protection Tips

  • Use chemical free hair products (read more). The chemical list on the average shampoo bottle is nothing short of scary!
  • Use a clarifying shampoo around once a week to eliminate product build up. A good natural alternative is apple cider vinegar.
  • Add a squirt of a good quality nourishing oil to your shampoo or your conditioner. (e.g. Carelli Recovery Oil)
  • Apply a nourishing oil (e.g. Carelli Recovery Oil) to damp ends after washing
  • Massage Carelli Oil into your scalp the night before washing it for a healthy shiny look
  • Rinse pool and sea water out of your hair as soon as possible, they both have a drying effect on hair.

Chemical free products don’t have to cost the earth. When used according to their directions (ie in very small amounts), a bottle of organic shampoo will last much longer than the supermarket alternatives.

5. Be kind to wet hair

Wet hair is vulnerable, it becomes stretchy and as a result, it can break.

Wet Hair Tips

  • Always use a wide tooth comb on wet hair.
  • When adding styling products be sure to comb them through with a wide tooth comb
  • Save your plastic brushes for styling dry hair. If you use a brush and blow dryer together, ensure that you use a good quality soft brush
  • Avoid rubbing wet hair dry. Use a microfibre hair towel wrap that soaks up the moisture and prevents the need to rub hair dry

6. Increase the volume of your hair

It sounds like a crazy statement – just simply make your hair thicker. But, believe it or not, it is absolutely possible. The most recent breakthrough in hair volume technology for women is organic cotton hair fibres. When applied to dry hair, hair fibres obscure the scalp, which is good for confidence as well as protection from the sun.

Hair Fiber Tips

  • Choose a colour closest to your root colour and if you can’t decide, choose the darker option
  • Style hair as usual, then shake in a cosmetic cover up fibre like BOOSTnBLEND for women
  • Always blend in hair fibres with your fingers to ensure the fibres cling to the individual hair shaft
  • Apply a light hair spray to hold your style in place
  • Always make sure you are using a hair fibre product made from cotton. There are some hair fibres made primarily for men which claim to contain a “keratin protein”, but as we all know, it’s really a chemical concoction made to imitate protein. And worst case scenario, if it does actually contain protein, it will be derived from animals which require a whole host of chemical treatments to become fit for human use.

We don’t have to give in to aging and our hair doesn’t need to look our age. Take on board these simple tips and you can reverse the damage you may already have done, and younger looking hair has an amazing effect on confidence.

If all these tips are a bit overwhelming, try to introduce a new tip each week until they become habits, your hair will thank you!


About Bambi Staveley

Bambi suffered hormone related hair loss in her forties. Since then she has devoted her life to helping other women boost the quantity and the quality of their thinning locks. Now age 55, Bambi has become a prolific hair loss writer  having recently launched her new book HOW TO MAKE THIN HAIR FAT and she has also developed a range of hair thickening products exclusively for women (BoostnBlend), and offers help via a help line in Australia.

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  1. I have never heard of cotton fibres can you give me some information regards brands and where to purchase in Australia

    • Hi Gay, We recommend BoostnBlend as they are made from natural cotton. You can buy online here: http://www.boostnblend.com.au and they deliver next day. There is a heap of information on that website all about cotton fibres and how they work. Plus there is a page of reviews so you can see what other women are saying about them.

  2. Hi every time I get my hair coloured at the hair dressers I have a massive break out on my head and base of my neck serious itching then I get pimple like sites that are quite tender and sore some of them weep and bleed they last for weeks after having this done why does this happen I’m 60 year old female do I just let my hair go grey and be done with it last time it happened I was on steroids and had inflammatory tablets and cream to use I would appreciate any advise THANKYOU

    • Hi Sandy, Sounds like you should try off-scalp hair colouring. There is an article about hair dyes here: https://femalehairlosshelp.com/does-hair-dye-cause-hair-loss/
      For anyone who has a bad reaction to hair dyes, the off-scalp (eg foils) is a better way to go as the solution doesn’t come in contact with your scalp. At least if you do that, you will be able to go grey slowly and more gracefully!

      • For a few years I have been colouring my hair and my scalp itches I have lost quite a lot of hair because of dying it as when I rinse the colour off my bath fills up with a lot of my hair which has fallen out and I recently used Garnier OLIA and it says on the packed NO AMMONIA and when I used this colour I had no pain or hair loss so this is the colour for me nice and kind to my scalp and hair. Very pleased with Garnier.

      • Susan Matthews April 9, 2017 at 4:13 pm

        The “secret” is to make sure you don’t leave ANY product on the scalp or neck when shampooing it out.I was a hairdresser for over 20 years,and always taught the Apprentices how to shampoo and rinse thoroughly.The ammonia or chemicals keep on reacting and burn the skin..Just saying.No emails please?

  3. Maxine Harrison March 17, 2016 at 11:47 am

    Sandy you say this happens everytime you go to a salon for your hair colour why not try doing you own at home with loreal Excellence cream Its an exceptional product an you may be able to tolerate it better ….:)

  4. My hair is course in parts and it looks like i have alot alot of hair…..It Soaks up all products and more ….it frizz up….

    After the second day i wash it the frizz starts to settles down

    Sometimes it can suprize me and it looks good then not so good so i tie it back

    I use to keep it very very now long
    If i cut it will frizz up

    • Hi Lucy, Try towel drying your hair between shampoo and conditioner. This definitely helps with getting rid of frizz as the conditioner is absorbed better on dryer hair. It’s the same idea as drying your face before you put on face cream. Another tip is to put in some conditioning oil an leave it in over night then wash your hair in the morning. Makes quite a bit of difference.

  5. Thank you for your 6 healthy hair tips for older women, very used full. I am now 72, and I need it one day. At the moment the condition I used egg yolk with lemon, and shampoo with ordinary shampoo, is good idea used Apple cider vinegar, I will try

  6. Having experienced and still doing so most of these conditions, the advice provided is very good and will try those I haven’t used. Cider vinegar yes. I had the same reaction as Sandy Meurs to hair dyes salon and home applications. Boost and Blend thanks for your in depth advice and tips. Nice hair makes one feel good .

    • Hi Norma, Thanks for the feedback. Yes, nice hair is certainly one of those things we all love to have.

  7. Hi Bambi,
    I just couldn’t understand why my hair is so unhealthy when I use quite expensive products from a recognised salon.
    After reading your 6 healthy tips it has made me feel better.
    I have always said if your hair feels good, you feel good but that hasn’t been the case for quite some time now as I feel as though I am losing a lot of hair. I have hardly used my hair dryer in the past month?? My hair feels so limp and fly away therefore I am putting it up in a clip. Your help would be greatfully received. Kind regards Lesley Cryer

    • womenhairloss May 3, 2016 at 1:04 pm

      Hi Lesley, I also find that a hair dryer can make my hair feel thinner and lighter. I do use a lot of styling products like mousses and this really does help a lot! I suggest you try to stick with chemical free shampoo and conditioner and also use an oil. Try putting the oil in before bed the night before you plan to wash your hair. This can really help to improve the quality of your hair. There are some chemical free products here: http://www.boostnblend.com.au/collections/shampoos-and-conditioners-for-thinning-hair
      Also, if you do decide to use some styling products, try to use the brands that hair dressers carry like Kerastase as these tend to have less chemicals.
      Hope some of these suggestions are helpful.

  8. I absolutely love BoostnBlend. I have dyed dark hair which has thinned out all over. I can once again wear my hair in a high pony tail by shaking a small amount of BoostnBlend over the thiner areas and set with little hairspray. It non reactive and washes out completely.
    I can’t live without it now and will purchase again.
    Hopefully it will be available in Australian shops one day.

    • womenhairloss May 3, 2016 at 1:09 pm

      Hi Lindy,
      Thanks for the comments. Yes we love BoostnBlend too! You will find that there are a few stores that stock BnB and these are listed on our website under About Us. If there’s nothing close by you and you want to have it available locally, then let your hair dresser know you would like them to stock it. If they contact us, we will provide them with samples. Thanks for the feedback

  9. You really saved my skin with this infiomatron. Thanks!

  10. Is there any shop in England that sells Boastnblend

  11. I would give anything for dry hair!! Mine is oily – always has been since I was young with very dark straight hair. Now that I am much older, I got fed up with dying it and so have gone grey naturally, but it is still oily. I loved it when perms were in fashion many moons ago, as my hair was perfect then! I have short hair now, but what can I do for oily hair please???? Help……!

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